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Eric F Coppolino's avatar

As a lover of women and of the gateway — the vulva — this is horrid. However, we consistently ignore the genital mutilation of men that has gone on uninterrupted in the United States for many generations. And both women and gay men can chirp about whether they prefer "cut" or "uncut" but the reality is that the male foreskin is the equivalent of the clitoris. According to Joseph Kramer, the foreskin spiritually maps to the heart. In terms of brain anatomy, the foreskin maps to pleasure receptors that were not designed for pain.

In terms of familial bonds, such an attack on a baby is about destroying trust -- his trust in his protectors and his trust in existence. Nearly every man you see in the United States has been through this on day three of his life. What a way to enter the physical plane.

The tip of the boy's penis is amputated without anesthesia and without comforting, and it's brutally painful — and then for the rest of his life, an attribute of his body is missing. This separates him from his mother, who was supposed to protect him from this kind of assault at three days old; it affects his sexual feelings and abilities; it makes him accustomed to agonizing pain on an organ designed to give and receive bliss; and nobody cares. We have never reckoned the cost, in terms of making men ready for being the recipient of sexual violence. Nobody who claims that men are all potential perpetrators accounts for the role of male genital mutilation in their perception.

If the mother wants this done to the boy, none dare call it sexual violence by women. None dare say that the procedure IS MEDICALLY USELESS and done for profit only(and paid for by insurance) — "curing" nonexistent problems — a theme of this Substack. If we're going to address genital mutilation of girls and young women for girls, let's address it for all people. The hypocrisy is too much to stand. Circumcision must be BANNED or completely eschewed as barbaric like the prefrontal lobotomy. In sexual terms, it is the same thing.

Joseph A Gorski's avatar

Thank you for sharing Naomi’s article and a quick summary of this terrible mutilation going on. Time for a children’s bill of rights. Nobody under 18 can be mutilated, sterilized (literally or chemically with puberty blockers), have double mastectomies, or any other procedure they are unable to consent to. Parents should not have these rights under loopholes in the laws. Children are people that shouldn’t legally enter adulthood with sexual scars because of their parents misguided beliefs.

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